When people are devastated, we shouldn’t care if Ted Cruz was an asshole

As the stories of neighbors helping neighbors begin to recede like Harvey’s floodwaters, the rush of stories on which politician is being an asshole is heading full steam toward us. Most of the stories are about the downside of humanity, in which people find ways to remind us that basic, common human decency isn’t common or basic for some people.

While some reporters are trying to help people figure out where damage is or where their loved ones are, you have this asshole tweeting a fake shark photo and this ABC reporter ratting out “looters” to the cops and bragging about it on social media.

While some companies are pitching in with water and supplies, you have insurance agencies trying to figure out what “isn’t covered” and people perpetuating scams on hurricane victims and those hoping to help them.

And while you have some politicians who are trying to figure out how to get these people help, you have people like these assholes, who voted against packages that helped victims of Superstorm Sandy, already trying to “reframe” their votes as to not look hypocritical.

Looking for the basic humanity and honest decency in most politicians is like digging through a pile of dog shit to find a diamond earring you think the dog swallowed: That’s a lot of shit to go through for something that might not be there and even if it is, it’s probably tainted in some way. In that regard, calling out Ted Cruz and his Texas brethren of Sandy “no votes” is a pointless task.

Even more, I wouldn’t care if Texas had elected three demons and the anti-Christ to congress at this point: People are suffering and we should help them. It’s the right thing to do. Why don’t more people who decide where money goes think like this? Is it that they are so myopic about politics that they can only see things in a “win/lose” context that strengthens or weakens an affiliation to a nebulous ideology?

When I pulled over to the side of the road to help a guy with a flat tire, I didn’t ask, “Now wait a minute… Did you vote for Scott Walker? If so, I’m punching a hole in another tire and setting your trunk on fire.” No. He needed help. That’s what he got from me, as best as I could.

I know some of the kids in my classes voted for people who fucked me out of raises and benefits and undercut my mother’s union. Would the world be better off if I refused to help those kids improve their writing or said they couldn’t come to office hours for career guidance? No. The kid needs help, the kid gets help. It’s how things work.

One of the many things I like about this blog is that we don’t agree about everything or all the time. We can be different, but we recognize basic humanity. When A put out the Batsignal for Houston, we chipped in what we could.

Even more, I have no idea who will get that money, nor do I care. Will it help a racist old lady who refers to our 44th president as “that colored boy?” Will it provide an “unearned benefit” to a guy who flew a Stars and Bars flag over his house and kept all his money in Jack Daniel’s Elvis decanters? Will it “give away” something to people who showed up at rallies for Cruz or Trump and chanted, “Build that Wall!” and “Lock her UP!”

I have no goddamned idea and neither do you. All we know is that somebody is getting a warm meal, a change of underwear, a dry blanket, a safe bed and a dozen other things they wouldn’t have otherwise. That’s important.

When people are hurting, they last thing they need is a lecture about how they should have thought about that shit when they voted for Ted Cruz. They don’t need to hear shit about how, “If you Texans are so tough, what do you need our help for?” They don’t need snide shit about attaching a lawnmower engine to their belt buckle and just boating out of there on that. They need to hear, “Hi, we’re here to help.”

And maybe after all this, the people who got that help will be better able to help the next group of people who desperately need it.

5 thoughts on “When people are devastated, we shouldn’t care if Ted Cruz was an asshole

  1. Lex says:

    I’ve had this same discussion on Twitter, Doc. Yeah, Cruz is an asshole. Help Texas anyway.

    And on the bright side, I imagine this will quiet all the Texas-secession talk for at least a little while.

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  2. gratuitous says:

    Think of it this way: Ted Cruz and his Texas brethren failed their basic humanity test when disaster struck someplace that was not-Texas. This time around, they passed their basic humanity test, probably because disaster struck Texas. We’re pointing this out so that if the next disaster hits not-Texas, they might remember how they got a passing grade last time, rather than reverting to their previous form.

    I reckon you’ve seen this with students. First test: “Boy, I really bombed that test. Guess I should have done the reading.” Second test: “Wow, I did a lot better this time around. It pays to study.” Mid-term coming up in a couple of weeks. What to do?

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  3. I agree. Help the people in need first and then deal with Cruz.

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  4. jwilloth says:

    It is possible to point out that Ted Cruz is an asshole *and* help people in need at the same time. These things are not mutually exclusive. Nobody is advocating predicating aid to somebody on that person’s willingness to acknowledge Ted Cruz is a choad.

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  5. vertalio says:

    Got to help; and Cruz, and Dolt 45, and the sort of people who vote for them just have to experience disaster in order to understand empathy, since they didn’t get any as original equipment.

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