friends. The straight guy who walks into a dyke bar is an unwelcome
presence, and may be asked to leave.
Women hanging around the gay disco, however, is a very familar phenomenon. And the belief of some women that they have aspecial friendship with their gay male friends is a myth.
Let me disabuse you ladies of your naivete: A reasonably attractive
young gay man has no problem getting with two or three guys a night.
And that’s if he’s really picky. (ReadAnd The Band Played On,
by Randy Shilts.) So when some lonely, frustrated woman wants to hang
around with gay guys because it’s the only male companionship she can
get, she is recognized for the truly pathetic loser she is.
In this guy’s estimation, people can’t be friends no matter WHAT their sexual orientation is. It doesn’t matter if you like men, women, some of each, all that matters is that unless you’re trying to get with that there’s no reason to even talk. Lesbians don’t have straight male friends? Straight chicks only hang out with gay guys because they’re desperate for male attention? There’s no other possible explanation, like, say, they’re human beings who like talking to each other and going to baseball games and bars and shit?
This guy probably STILL quotesWhen Harry Met Sally at parties to explain why no woman except for his wife will be seen within 50 feet of him. People can’t be friends, silly, they have to want to fuck each other. They have to fit into some Sex and the City category where you’re either bestest girlfriends EVAR, sleeping together, or in it for the shoes. I swear, half the relationship commentary I read these days, I want to ask if the writer knows any humans or has just learned about them from the TV beamed to his planet.