I honestly can’t think of a title…



The above photo from Thursday’s Times Picayune is of Saul and Mildred Rubin, both in their 90’s, in their Lakeview home “which took on nearly 9 feet of water from the nearby 17th Street Canal breach.” The accompanying TP story told of their shock when they received their “Congratulations” letter from the Road Home program informing them the damage on their home was put at $550. The Rubin’s had wanted to return home but given that estimate and a deduction from a FEMA grant it was concluded they don’t qualify for a rebuilding grant.

This is heartbreaking. The Road Home has been anything but so far. To date only 84 people have received Road Home grants. Briefly, $7.5 billion in federal money was finally sent to Louisiana this summer to give homeowners repair or buy-out grants. The state hired a company named ICF for $756 million to set up and administer a program called “The Road Home” to disburse the grants. The program has been run so poorly that on Friday the LA state legislature House “sent the governor’s office a resolution, approved 97-1, directing her staff to fire ICF.” It’s unclear what if anything will occur in that regard but the story of the Rubins sparked outrage from TP readers.

The Rubins…all the Rubins

I’m not sure where to start with this so I’m just going to first draft it and see what comes out. There has not been a day since August 28th 2005 that I have not thought about New Orleans. I’ve read everyday and written many a day about the city and its people. How my life became intertwined with them I do not know. It hadn’t been a conscious decision. It just happened. When people ask me why, my first thought is why not, but my only answer to date has been because it is just so Wrong.

What I saw on my first trip to New Orleans was shocking. And you know it really hit home when I returned home. I came in late at night exhausted and just went to bed. The next day I went out to run errands. It was there at the red streetlight on the corner by my home that it hit. I looked at the red light and knew I could just stop and rest assured that this machine would tell me when it was safe to go ahead. A working streetlight…What a relief and in those seconds I looked to my left and there was an open convenience store and to my right was an open Walgreens. Man I could just pull in and get gas or a Coke or medication or candy, toothpaste, office supplies, use a bathroom, heck get fresh cut roses. It was all just right there at my ready.

I looked up and down the street and there were any number of stores and restaurants all open and teeming with people who hadn’t lost acquaintances, friends or family to tragedy. Their homes had water and power and mail delivery everyday. They weren’t pulling out their hair filling out SBC and FEMA forms or waiting on hold to discuss their “case” with someone…anyone. They weren’t sinking into depression or anxiety wondering what would happen next…if anything. Yes here I was in a place where everything was working and whole and so clean. After just 10 days in New Orleans this now seemed like another planet. And what did I feel? Folks I felt guilty. Yeah I felt guilty for living in a functioning American city. Is that messed up or what?

I share this in hope of bringing another level of understanding of how broken it is in New Orleans. That a person returning from there would look at a streetlight and gas stations with wide eyed wonder, gratitude and guilt says something of just how wrong it is in the Crescent City and in our America.

People are suffering and I worry about them. I don’t know if it a blessing or a curse but integral to me is that I do as the great Atticus said and I walk around in the skin of those people. And when I walk around in the 90 year old skin of Mildred Rubin and I look out through her eyes and see …

–my dear home and all my possessions that I collected over the years destroyed…

–and I know there’s only so much my children, themselves now elderly, can do to help…

–and I don’t even know where many of my friends or neighbors are…

–and it’s really too much to lean on the ones who are still here because they too are awash in their own troubles…

–and then I receive the congratulatory news that there will be no help…

I would undoubtedly ask at 90 years of age…How do I even go on?

My hope is the Rubins are plucky and feisty as hell and fight a good fight. But we need to realize and know…I mean know and feel it…that lives are ruined. Spirits are breaking everyday. People are still dying. There are suicides and there has been much anecdotal evidence of particularly the elderly just giving up on their lives. Is it any wonder?

I can’t write of the sorrow and desperation with out also writing of the incredible fight and resilience of those struggling to rebuild. They drive past destruction and emptyness everyday but will themselves forward to gut homes and deal with contractors and curse and fight the governments that have been woefully lacking to help them. But they go on and it amazes me. I admire them. I respect them and the love they have for their city and its culture which they only want to save. I delight in their joy when the Saints win. For a few hours they have the joy that the rest of America has…well ok given the Saints its better than what most of America has. But I worry about them. They have had to bend and bend and I wonder if there is a breaking point out there waiting.

Look I don’t have an ending here. I feel awkward and I am loathe to hit publish on my personal feelings. This isn’t about me. But the Rubins got to me and so I write. Take it for what it’s worth. I admit I hope its worth your outrage. I hope its worth your action. I don’t have the answers but I have to believe they’re out there and in us.

One of my friends in New Orleans says to keep in mind that they are running a marathon. I don’t know. It seems more like an endless Trail of Tears to me. And they shouldn’t be walking it alone.

11 thoughts on “I honestly can’t think of a title…

  1. Damn the Bushit Administration to HELL!!!
    God bless Saul and Mildred Rubin, as they try to rebuild their “golden years”. But wait. . .they aren’t black, are they? I thought the problem with rebuilding New Orleans was that the poor black residents were going to take advantage of the government welfare and become millionaires.
    Everybody, no matter what color of skin, is going to suffer from this travesty. And the Rubins? Maybe some wealthy land developer will offer twice what they got from the government, and then the developer can put up a new casino when the city is transformed into an exclusive country club for the “right” kind of people.
    My wish for the Winter Solstice? That Karma will be a bitch.

  2. Hoppy, you’re right. When our troubles come, we’ll be depending on the kindness of strangers.

  3. A major disappointment to me is that the incoming Democratic Congress has been so silent about New Orleans and the Gulf Coast. I expected to read that rebuilding that area immediately would be a top priority of the new Congress. I am totally befuddled about this. I do understand that the majority of the folks who are suffering there don’t share my skin color, but it doesn’t make sense for that to be an issue. The message I get is if my turn is next, I am on my own – I’m not a mountain climber, nor am I a cute missing white girl.

  4. this should NOT be accepted. by americans, by the government, by LAW! this is not just! it’s not RIGHT.
    and the majority of everything is ignoring this.
    because this is black? because they are poor? and all this hoopla for 3 fucking mountain climber who didn’t check the fucking weather before they went up the hill???
    i fear civiliaztion has truely been lost. and what is being done with the levees now???

  5. Thanks paradox…from you that means a lot. I look forward to what you write.
    I do believe it is skin though…
    “”If you just learn a single trick, Scout, you’ll get along a lot better with all kinds of folks. You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view… Until you climb inside of his skin and walk around in it. –Atticus Finch ”

  6. I am sorry to be critical. This is very powerful, excellent writing.
    I will do what I can. I need to think a little–something here is very, very wrong on a deep level I can’t hope to get, but have to make a stab at.
    The work will be up later today at The Left Coaster. I’ll do what I can, I’ve been very quiet lately, semi-whipped with other stuff.

  7. I don’t even know what to say in response to your heartbreaking post, Scout. I don’t have a beginning or an end.
    Bush and his pack of hyenas have talked so much about “emboldening” the enemy, you know, when people speak out against the “war on terror.” Yet he and his administration continue to sit on their hands and look the other way while an American city rots. Not just any American city either but one of the oldest, most culturally rich, historically significant cities in our country. One of the best known and best loved cities in the world. They let it rot, let its people go without answers. What does that say to the rest of the world, our supposed enemies included?

  8. Oh my friend …
    first off, what our wise friend janeboatler said – ditto, ditto
    I confess I wonder if I would have the humanity to do the same. I hope so.
    As for what do we do – well, you are doing your part. And we should all support Edward’s efforts to make this more visible as well. (I don’t give a damn if he’s using us. Use away)
    We need political solutions – any pressure to put us on the 101st hour list is terrific. Anything that translates the outrage into action items is what we need at this point.
    I think the ledge will shame the gov into dropping the current Road Home contract. Who knows if that will help in time. A whole heck of a lot of the tax base of this city is leaving in droves. And I don’t blame ’em.

  9. Scout, my friend, you made me cry. I, too, cry for the Rubins, in their 90s, having to start over again. I cry for the failure of our government even to acknowledge the scope of the disaster that remains, much less give help and support.
    I don’t know why you got deeply involved the plight of New Orleans and its people as you did, Scout, but I’m glad you did. It hurts, yes, it hurts. You’d, no doubt, be happier in ignorance of it all. But I believe that your involvement and your writing had a small part in reminding the rest of the country that the disaster is not over, and that the people of New Orleans were, and still are, treated as less than human by the powers-that-be.

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